A blog on our experiences with Lewy Body Dementia and how we navigate this difficult disease.
About Me
My name is Sandra. I care for my husband, who was diagnosed with Lewy Body Dementia and Atypical Parkinsonism in January of 2018. We walk the Lewy Road together.
This blog is an attempt to share some of our experiences dealing with this truly frightening disease. I have done some reading, but have no expertise in this area. Therefore, I do not offer advice, only what we’ve encountered, and how we manage them. It is and will continue to be messy, frustrating, sweet, tender, heartbreaking, funny; all the things that life is.
I’m pretty open and honest. What I am not is religious. Not even spiritual, really. One of the reasons I decided to start writing these experiences is because I need a space to share that isn’t dominated by the prayer circles and calls for divine intervention that seem inevitably to flood most online fora I’ve seen. But please, don’t let that bother you. I understand we all have different needs, and those things are important – vital – to a lot of people who are dealing with similar difficulties. Just not me. And I profoundly acknowledge the positive energy that wafts from the hearts and minds of compassionate and caring people of all faiths and non-faiths. As an old friend once said, it’s in the air.
I also swear sometimes. Okay, a lot. Please accept that. It is part of my self-care. Really.
My hope is that this blog be a help to those who are also caring for a loved one with LBD. At least may it offer a bit of insight into what someone with LBD – and those who care for them – endures.
Empathy is powerful.
About Mr. Dewey
Mr. Dewey is probably the sweetest person anyone knows. Everyone who meets him adores him and instantly sees his sweet, gentle, kind, generous nature. We are lucky Lewy has not seen fit to change that fundamental sweetness.
So far.
It could happen, and that is my greatest fear, really, through all of this. It would be an unbearable heartbreak, indeed.
Mr. Dewey has been my husband, companion, friend, sweetie pie, for more than 30 years. He is smart, funny, disciplined, determined, introverted.
He is also afraid.
So we walk together, hand in hand, looking for joy where we can.
LBD is robbing my Sweetie of his past and his future. It is my mission that it not rob him – us – entirely of Now.
About LBD
Here are some resources I’ve found helpful:
Lewy Body Dementia Association
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